"Couple Bad Chicks and They All look Brazilian"


 
So if you have not heard about the hair removal Mecca, better known as "The European Wax Center" I can sum up its description by simply calling it "Hell, then Heaven on Earth". Now being The Socialite Heiress, I’m going to give you the real scoop about my experience, but please do not only take my word for it, try it out for yourself. The process really does have its perks.

The very first attempt I made to try the European Wax Center, I went in for a Brazilian Wax. They can wax just about any part of your body, but the Brazilian wax is one of their more popular services. Being it was my first time I decided the process would be easier with shorter hair and trimmed my hair prior to my arrival. DO NOT DO THIS! The hair was too short for the wax to grip and I was told to come back when it grew a little more.

I took that advice a little too far and came back with a full bush of hair. I asked my wax specialist if it was too much and she said no it was normal. Making the appt. and getting connected with a specialist was super easy. Your specialist will come to the lobby and escort you to one of the many red doors. I am not just making a “Hell” correlation, the doors really are red. I entered the room, and placed my bag in the designated corner. I then removed my garments and laid on the waxing table.

The Wax they use is a metallic purple hard wax that they are known for. The wax glides over your hair smoothly and is warm like any other wax, but it is much thicker. When it cools you quickly realize the pain you are about to encounter. All I could think to myself was "what the hell did you get yourself into". The wax is pulled off by hand, in a jagged motion. You are prepped with powder so that the wax only attaches to the hair when being removed. I jumped at just about every snatch of the wax. The area that hurt the worst was the top bikini area. Between the laughs, the screams, and perspiration from all the adrenaline, I could tell my specialist was getting annoyed because I ended up having to dangle my legs off each side of the table. This was to prevent me from closing my legs. **Side note, you do not want to be in this position.

They tell you 100x between arriving and leaving that the 1st time is the worst, but after that it will be a breeze. I can attest that the 1st time was horrible but well worth it. After what felt like 100 rips (really about 10-15 rips) we were done! The majority of hair was removed but I still had single strands here and there. I was told, being it was the first time that, “that was normal, and the following time it would catch more of the hair.” The amount of hair left over was hardly noticeable.

I was scheduled 3 weeks out to return again. When I returned, I was excited because 1. There was hardly any hair to wax. 2. I was told 100 times it would be super easy. I have hair that grows rather quickly and thick so I was shocked that the wax prevented so much hair from growing back. Unfortunately, I made another mistake. I scheduled a wax a couple days prior to my “time of the month”. This made my bikini area very sensitive. This time hurt almost as much as the first time. It got to the point that she asked if I wanted to finish. I let her finish, and used the breathing techniques she taught me to make it through.

The rips stung like no other especially on the pelvic area. My specialist was not good at applying pressure after ripping off the wax so that made it a little worse. The only bearable area was the waxing of the buttocks (this is a free area that comes with the Brazilian wax).

Once completed the specialist will suggest products they feel will help with the new hair growth process. I purchased the Body Polish which I was told would help with ingrown hairs. I actually did not use it and when I returned the 3rd time I had a few ingrown hairs that had to be plucked with a tweezers.

The finished look was flawless both times, however, to be honest you can achieve this look with shaving. What makes it worth it is, how quick it takes, how slowly the hair grows back, and how smooth it actually gets. It is painful, but the pain fades and the amount of time you enjoy the manicured look is far longer compared to how long the pain of waxing actually lasts.

Your first Brazilian wax is heavily discounted at The European Wax Center so you should at least try it out. If you have ever tried the European Wax Center leave your experiences below, I would love to Laugh... I mean hear about it.

I pray that all of your pain, Be CHAMPAGNE


 
You can wrap just about anything in Pink and Glitter and I will buy it, so when I saw these amazing bottles from Champagne Bisou on Instagram I knew I had to own 1 (Or two ;)). There were so many different options but I knew this one would be the perfect fit for my home office. I purchased both the Large and Mini bottle and could not be happier. 

#workinggirlwardrobe




 
I love this Stylish look for an average workday. This Blazer goes with everything. Navy Blue has been my new Black and I have had many wears out of this Blazer. Outfit Details Below!

*Blazer- Trina Turk 
*Blouse and Pants- Forever 21 (circa 2011)
*Heels- Bebe
*Necklas- Kendra Scott

Does Size Really Matter?


As I am coming down from the high of my companies Wedding Showcase, I wanted to shed some light on the myth about Ring Size.

Fellas, this post is for you (Oh but mainly you... you know who you are)

If you want to make her Happy Buy her a Huge Rock!
If you don't know what a huge Rock Looks like, Google Kim Kardashian's Ring and trump it!
If she says "she's simple and isn't in to huge on jewelry"... Buy her a Huge Rock

...If this is your thought process, YOU ARE COMPLETELY WRONG

A women's wedding ring should reflect the character of the lady. Some women are not gaudy with their jewelry and would prefer a petite simple ring. While others are more flashy and would like a very stylish custom designed ring. It is your job as the proposer to find out what it is SHE wants, she is the one who has to wear it for heaven-sake! So many times women have been chastised for not appreciating the ring their beau's purchase them, however this is a gift and it should definitely be something she can appreciate.

Now on to the price! I personally feel all the rules about "the engagement ring being 3-4 months' salary" are silly. If you find a ring that is 9 months your salary, and you think it would be perfect for her you should get it! She deserves it after all, she's the girl of your dreams.

Now I am definitely not saying put yourself in debt to make your queen happy. So with that being said, if you know she's the one, or at least know you want to be married someday, save your money so that you can get that special girl the ring she deserves. If you have a large amount of money coming in, put some of it to the side for her ring. Sometimes men intimidate themselves by thinking, "I can not afford the ring she wants, so I will just stall until the money magically appears. Just like every other step after the proposal, you will have to plan for it. 

Congrats to all the newly engaged couples!

Sincerely,
Mariyah 



Do you have sex on the first date?




This Post is rated Mature 17+
So, I have been asked the question in the title so many times. I have also asked my girlfriends this very same question. When I do, I have received mixed responses. Things like "it depends who it is" and " how long I have known this person". They also pointed out that the actual first date may be a month after they met him.

I received all these responses as if there was a correct answer to whether it is okay or not. There is not a rule book on this topic, but the wrong  answer can  have serious consequences to your pride if you are in a judgmental atmosphere.

My personal opinion is you should be sexually intimate when you feel love is connected to the act. {Yes I'm a hopeless romantic and can not be remotely turned on unless I know this particular man loves me.} I know I gave you all the perfect pageant answer, however there are still holes in my philosophy. Falling in Love with someone could happen at any given time, I mean there is a such thing as love at first sight. Right?

Whether it's the 3rd date or after Marriage, I do feel there is one thing any sexually active adult could agree on. No matter when or how much time it took for the act to happen, the fact that it happened should be kept private! 

A lot of times people (mainly males) love to brag about how quickly they received the goods, as well as females bragging about how long she was able to string him along before offering the goods. I'm not sure when this became the thing to do but it is very tacky. Naturally you speak about these things to your inner circle, but definitely not outside of that.  
Granted I know how much a badge of honor it would be to sleep with me, so I understand wanting to Brag (LOL) Just Kidding. But on a serious note, Grow up, have some respect for the other person involved.

Moral of the story, there is not an official timeline for sex, however when participating in the act, use some etiquette and keep the act private.

Sincerely,

-Mariyah H

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